Me and my partner love the style of this podcast. We are listening beginning to end and can’t wait until the next episode. The way you two work through conversations is such a great example for a new couple to learn in a positive way. We are sharing your stuff to all the new couples we meet that are still navigating things. It’s too good not to share! (Btw Bella, you’re my girl crush and I would be star struck if we get lucky enough to cross paths 😍 lol). Thanks again you two and can’t wait to keep following!

Been listening for awhile and just love their dynamic, stories and their journey through the lifestyle etc.

Me and my husband are new to the LS, and knowing that these two are close to the same age as us their podcast has been a huge help with different questions and helping us navigate through the lifestyle. We love to listen to all the stories.

I agree with Bella! Lol They are relatable like complimentary colors and they’re both my favorites as well!

Hosts Bella and Jase are relatable, entertaining and informative. They thoroughly cover an array of topics, vacations spots, clubs, newbie questions and challenges while adding personal stories and reviews. It’s a great balance and an easy listen for anyone interested in the “lifestyle” or just enjoy enriching your life through learning about different ways people express themselves.

Love the pod, love the stories, most of all love the energy!

You guys have such a great energy, so positive, and I love how y’all’s energy seems to feed off of each other! Favorite LS podcast!

Overall enjoy listening to this podcast; however, it would be even better if “so cute” wasn’t overused for every person they meet. In the lifestyle, women (and men) want to be sexy not cute. Also, just a suggestion - maybe take notes after an experience so you have something to reference back to. Often times, the spicy stories being shared are hard to follow because y’all say you can’t remember. If not notes to reference back to, maybe only share stories that are current - trying to retell something from months to years ago doesn’t seem to serve y’all well

My husband and I just love this podcast. Bella and Jase are so engaging, honest, interesting, and clearly in love with each other. Really a breath of fresh air! We are hoping to book a Bliss Cruise at some point so we can meet them!

Thinks it’s interesting sometimes, but the hosts seem so prude for people that aren’t. Like a new move is learning how to pull hair from the scalp? What other way is there really without pulling it like a child trying to hurt you?.. and never had anyone put on a condom on you?

I absolutely love listening to them! I love how they present their podcast. I have heard a lot of swingers podcasts before and typically one person dominates the talking. These two lovelies take turns equally sharing and explaining. I love the details they give and in such a straight forward, upbeat and sexy way! The personal experience stories are my fav!

Don’t really understand this way in love and sharing your spouses “special” areas with others. My opinion I can fantasize about it but would never share someone I love (I know never say never). I trust her, but I am not built that way. My opinion is that these types of people are not really in love. And that’s cool. But they make it out like the human body is to be used as a depository. I hold no bad feelings for these people. Hey do what you want. As for any diagnosis professionals make on these types, it’s all liberal jargon.

As a couple learning about & exploring an alternative lifestyle, this podcast has been so informative & SO FUN to listen to!

My wife and I are brand new to the lifestyle (like early stages of exploring it) we both love this podcast and listen to it together. It’s very educational and gives us a lot to talk about as a couple.

Hi, No sarcasm: I am not a swinger, thanks to Bella and Jase. A few months back, my wife and I randomly brought up the topic of swinging. Immediately my wife perked interest, so we explored the topic more. We got to the point where we did not know how to start swinging, so we needed to do active research. In comes, 4ourPlay. I randomly searched for a swinger podcast and found this one first. After a few podcasts I realized Bella and Jase had something, our marriage was lacking: strong communication skills. We never talked about our feelings much, and if we did, we said what the other wanted to hear. We made it a mission to improve our communication. The first couple of sessions, were rough. We basically unloaded 12 years of built up tension, jealousy, and misunderstandings. We got to the root of why my wife was interested in swinging in the first place. She was bored with our relationship and wanted to sleep with someone that finds her attractive. She didn’t know that I found her attractive, because I probably haven’t complimented her in years. I was ashamed in myself. We metaphorically wiped the slate clean and started over as if we just started dating. We went on dates, vacations with no kids, and started sexting each other while at work. After a week of freely speaking about how we actually felt about each other, she finally trusted me to tell her kinks and a variety of things to do with each other in the bedroom. We agreed to start exploring each other’s fantasies. We have learned more about each other in one month than we have ever known in 12 years of a relationship; having the time of our lives doing it. The door is not completely shut, but we are having so much fun with each other that we are not attracted to swinging at the moment. The stories are very enjoyable and hot, but the lessons are in their process of navigating their non-monogamist lifestyle. Bella and Jase’s communication skills develop the trust it takes to prosper in whatever lifestyle you choose. Plus, the stories help me think of new ideas for us to try in the bedroom. Thank you Bella and Jase for helping us avoid the mistake of swinging for the wrong reasons, in result saved my marriage.

Newbies here and listening to your podcast has helped my wife and I with some of the questions or curiosities that we have had. We look forward to joining one of the events soon. The content discussed is very straight forward, they don’t beat around the bush. They are very descriptive and helps imagine what they experienced. Especially the cruise episode. Minus two stars because the bribed everyone to do a review and didn’t follow through on their offer.

My partner and I just started listening to this podcast and we love it. We’ve listened to other LS podcasts and have enjoyed them, but not as much as 4ourplay. It’s wonderful to hear the points of view from other young swingers as we go through our own journey in the LS. Thanks for the wonderful podcast. We look forward to hearing all about your escapades. 🖤❤️

You guys sound like so much fun! Me and my girl love listening !

This is my Favorite podcast I love how real and genuinely funny they are I’m glad I’m came across them and more glad I came across this podcast

My wife and I have just recently got into the lifestyle and it’s great listening to you guys and hearing that you guys have some the same issues as us

This podcast is fantastic! Super fun, informative and easy to listen too! Certainly a must listen!

Just found the podcast and it’s definitely worth a listen!

Fantastic open minded and fun non conventional conversations to expand the mind on other types of true love out there

it’s good to know that couples are able to talk about this lifestyle. all the information they give are fantastic!

Definitely lots of great info and stories!

Great podcast with fun stories and amazing advise

It is very interesting to listen to, it leaves me wanting to have more episodes!

I love you guys so much! I found you on TikTok first and fell in love with the stories you tell and the awareness you spread! You guys make me love our community even more!

The lifestyle is a spectrum of age groups, body types and experience and expectations. There are podcast for all of the aforementioned. However this is the first one I came across from a younger generations POV. Jace and Bella are not a specific style of podcast they can be a little how to.. they can be sexy story time, and they are super relatable and fun with weekly obsessions! They truly have a little of everything. Now they are coupling in reviews and starting meet ups and community building. This is just the beginning! You will love this podcast- I certainly do! David

Best pod cast around, super friendly and down to earth no holds bar conversations. Love it!!

I stumbled upon their Instagram and now I’m starting these podcasts. Great couple with awesome adventures and great advice

A very insightful look into a world I had no idea existed. Educational and entertaining which is what you obviously want any podcast to be.

Open conversation about a subject some people are uncomfortable with, sounds like a good time!

I listen in on my daily drives, sometimes I get half an episode in sometimes I get in a full episode. Nonetheless I enjoy every show, nothing better than excitement in the mornings to get your blood flowing & expanding your creativity!

This is not just an informative listen, but Bella and jace are hilarious and really bring in a sense of “those old friends that you can totally hang out with. As a couple that are beginning to wade into these waters, we have been able to answer questions, find activities, and all around enjoy our partnership. And these two are a major factor in that. Keep it up!

Love that I stumbled upon y’all’s podcast! I really enjoy hearing the experiences y’all have had(good and not so good). My partner and I are new to the lifestyle and y’all have helped us tremendously throughout our journey. Thanks babes! 🙃

Love your honesty and sexiness in the Lifestyle

Love this podcast, they are so relatable and honest and give good information and ideas.

Bella and Jase provide a lot of good information that really sheds light, especially for newbies. They are also really fun people and are down to earth and real which is very refreshing.

Bella and Jace are so real and relatable. Im so glad I stumbled upon this podcast! My favorite is popping in my AirPods and listening to their hilarious stories in waiting rooms and while grocery shopping. If only those around me knew what I was listening to 😅. Thanks Bella and Jace for your openness and stories!

Love the content. Really has me wondering about this fun lifestyle😉

10/10 definitely recommend listening to! They’re absolutely amazing to listen to and their ice breaker game is on point!

They are my #1 podcast of all time! 🔥If I could leave more than 5 stars, I would! 👏Absolute favorite podcast of LS! ❤️

The podcast is very interesting, informational and gives insight on things I hadn’t thought about before

It’s very interesting to listen to while I’m working and in a way takes my mind off relationships to think about life and teaches me a variety of things that I did not know before.

My wife and i had dabbled into swinging and had a few mfm’s. Took a break and had started talking about coming back. I discovered this podcast and the energry and just how the fun was talked about sold us on coming back! We are a few mfm’s in now. This is the best swinging podcast out there!

Love hearing all of the experiences, can’t stop tuning in!

They have helped me understand the swingers life more and have provided amazing advice in the podcasts !!

One of the best podcast we have listen to can’t complaint you have to listen

I’ve been listening to them for a couple of weeks now and am wanting to get into the lifestyle. They are so helpful and absolutely love listening to them. Keep it up