Oversharing

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Oversharing from Betches Media is all about the challenges we face in all kinds of relationships; from friendships to family, long term partnerships or even dealing with the customer service rep that makes you want to scream into a pillow. Betches co-founder and relationship enthusiast Jordana Abraham has teamed up with her big sister, licensed clinical therapist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, to answer your questions and try to get to the bottom of the things that bother us most. Think of Jordana and Dr. Naomi as your BFF and your therapist, sitting side-by-side at the brunch table trying to help you get through your problems. Each week they’re responding to listener emails, tackling difficult ethical questions, playing games, and so much more. Because sometimes we really need advice from people with no skin in the game. And let’s face it, your friends can’t stand to hear that story one more time.Watch Oversharing on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverythingsFineBetches

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  • Midwest-gal
    My Favorite Podcast
    I came across this podcast in the new year and have been slowly working my way through all of the episodes! It’s something I look forward to everyday and feel like I have learned a lot about myself/ others in the process. I find myself referencing topics and being more mindful in general. Great work ladies!! Keep them coming!! 🩷
  • Dichen678
    I love this new podcast so much! Introspective & relatable
    Update: still love it! Some people are mad that the hosts have opinions, which is ridiculous because it’s literally an advice show, they provide super balances and nuances analysis of most subjects, love hearing their perspectives. I agree that when Dr Naomi talked about the Telepathy Tapes I also googled it and found it that the results were generally disputed, I just assumed Dr Naomi didn’t know the background/fallout from the study. Loving the first episode (and I’m sure I’ll love the rest), I relate SO much to it, & both hosts’ perspectives are still interesting and helpful. I have also gone to therapy & I’m laughing at how the exact scenarios has happened to me. Jordans and her sis are also great together, can’t wait to hear more ❤️
  • JGetsIt
    Thank you
    Jordana, thank you so much for sharing your fertility story. It means so much to me, and so many others ❤️
  • inwashingtonheights
    Dangerous misrepresentation of facts from a doctor…
    I really enjoy most of these episodes, but had to unfollow when Dr. Naomi spoke at length about the podcast The Telepathy Tapes. A quick Google shows that this podcast is not based in truth, and the actual tapes (that show adults holding and moving the hands of these kids as they demonstrate “telepathy”) are behind a paywall. Furthermore, Dr. Naomi uses harmful disability tropes in her description of the series, talking about autistic “savants.” As a regular listener who loves someone with autism, I am so deeply disappointed in her for not responsibly vetting this recommendation when she is a voice I’ve grown to trust.
  • Kristen Lucado
    Dog Parenting is not real parenting
    Jordana’s constant relating “dog parenting” to being an actual parent is absurd
  • PT_mom
    Tackling serious topics with positivity
    Wow! The sisters have been tackling some pretty serious topics lately— health issues, feminism in the workplace, coping in our current political climate. Thank you for sharing tools that help me feel positive about these kinds of challenges. I particularly loved the reminder that small interactions can contribute to big change. YOU are contributing to big change!
  • User17s
    Labor
    The affluence of the hosts and presumed audience is annoying. I’m thinking back to an episode where they discuss not getting enough sleep. And they say it’s a little annoying but not a disaster. But it can be a disaster if you have a job that comes with physical risks. The hosts have comfortable lives and they assume their listeners do too.
  • Brittaniespark
    Almost perfect to tragic
    This show aims to be a fair and therapeutic take and instead ends up repeating talking points about vaccines saving lives and civic duties etc. if they would have stayed neutral I would have kept subscribing. Sadly they gave into the mob.
  • ibj53
    Didn’t love your take!
    I thought it was unfair to jump to the conclusion that the person clearing snow is mentally ill and to give it a 7 without considering there may be very real reasons - such as an early morning commute, medical appointments, other snow clearing to be done - for why they shovel/snow blow then. Also, noise from garbage trucks, snow plows and other things are common at all hours in populated areas. Annoying, a little triggering, Yes. A 7, no way!!
  • AngieB2592
    Letdown
    I started listening to this show because I love Jordana on U Up, but this podcast is a letdown. I find myself disagreeing with almost every take Jordana has and half the time it seems like she doesn’t understand what the emailer is trying to say. Dr. Naomi has the same low energy monotone voice and they don’t seem to ever disagree or challenge each other. I feel bad for the people who write in only to receive their odd perspectives. Overall a verbose and boring pod.
  • MKaaSB
    GOAT
    Greatest podcast of all time. Jordana and Naomi are the best, and I wish I could run every single thing by them.
  • AllisonM89
    Love this pod!
    🐶
  • jdch6
    Loving the new friendship content this week
    I enjoyed the caller having an open conversation with you about her potential friendship breakup this week. Would love to hear more about friendship breakups, navigating changing dynamics of friendships as we get older, etc.
  • debbiedennis
    One of my favorites
    I’m a regular listener and never miss an episode. I wish you ladies would discuss coping with sadness, anxiety, loneliness , anger, and despair that much our Jewish community is feeling these days.
  • smquatt
    Like a calming talk with friends
    Dropping a review here just to say that this is one of my favorite podcasts for the content, but also specifically for Dr. Naomi’s voice. I don’t know what it is, but I look forward to this podcast every week because it puts me in a “can do” mood without overstimulating me, her voice is very calming and soothing. Other podcast hosts have an insistent or demanding tone to their voices, which makes sense for their content, but it’s hard to listen to all the time especially as someone who devours podcasts 24/7 like me.
  • Eb2591
    Disappointed
    I’m used to love this podcast and the perspectives of Jordana and Dr. Naomi but after the last episode where they were so wildly misinformed about the dangers of the antivax movement and essentially talked down to a member of the medical community about this situation was incredibly distasteful and off putting. I was a subscriber but will have to take a break from the pod for a while.
  • 1234allie
    🚔🚫
    Reallllly appreciated you talking about police brutality during Dr Naomi’s triggered scene! I’m a regular listener and always appreciate yalls podcast <3
  • Rabbit_874992749
    Great podcast
    Sometimes I think Dr. Naomi is too kind to the ppl who are being jerks to the emailers. Like the mom who was sending mean texts to her daughter because the daughter was on vacation with her in laws. Pretty sure reassuring a toxic immature mother in that way isn’t going to do anything, especially since the mom won’t even own her behavior. Then again, I’m not a therapist so what do I know? Just didn’t feel like realistic advice. But other than that, I enjoy listening to Jordana and Dr. Naomi cover a wide range of topics. They are both very “real” which sometimes you aren’t going to get from a therapist. And they are funny! I do wish they’d cool it on all of the parenting/baby related topics though. This isn’t a parenting podcast.
  • Natbearz
    Great pod - terrible advice
    I really enjoy listening to this podcast, but these women give some of the worst advice I’ve ever heard. They somehow always manage to miss the point and are just completely out of touch. The most notable was with the tuna on a plane, but it’s been just as bad on recent episodes.
  • AmyRKB
    Favorite podcast
    Oversharing is the only podcast I listen to regularly, and the new bonus episodes convinced me to subscribe! I love to dynamic between Jordana and Dr. Naomi and they give great, entertaining advice. Give it a try, you won’t be disappointed!
  • Marie Says!
    Yessss!
    Loved this recent ep with Dr. Naomi sharing more about her life outside of mom talk. It was so refreshing to hear more about how she connects with her husband, how you can strengthen intimacy etc. would love to see more topics like this from hosts and listeners. It really added depth to the episode.
  • bellis723
    Running its course…
    To me this podcast has ran its course. I used to really enjoy the show but recently it’s more triggering than helpful or a good listen. Not only do they say “like” every other word (as another reviewer pointed out) but their recent advice seems SO out of touch. The election stuff was just wild. Also, they pushed me over the edge today when an emailer wrote in asking for advice and they took the side of the emailers friend who was basically bullying the emailer. They “validate” every emailer and then proceed to tell them why their feelings are wrong. Not what I want out of a podcast
  • Betches fan1
    Obsessed with this show!
    I look forward to this show every week and have been a listener since day 1! I love the thoughtful conversations between the sisters and how they approach people’s issues. I have gotten a little tired of the Intentions segment and wonder if it’s time for a switch up
  • Jessicaangeli_b
    Fun and super insightful!
    I feel my perspective broadens hearing your advice to the different scenarios. It makes me feel more grounded as well, while getting to share a laugh or two with you both as I listen.
  • Apocalypse … Eventually
    Good podcast; sound mix is not so good
    Informative and engaging podcast. My partner and I find both hosts thoughtful, intuitive, and funny. But what’s up with Jordana’s sound mix? The volume level is all over place, up and down, up and down. It happens in almost all episodes and it’s really distracting.
  • TMarie1234
    My favorite podcast
    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
  • Gardens are my vibe
    Like, not a thumbs up like, but like
    I began listening to these sisters over a year ago. I love their relationship and discussions. Feels familiar and relatable. I had to give this podcast a break. A long break because every other word was “like”. They clearly are smart but the over used word sounded intellectually not smart. It began to give me Legally Blonde vibes, which I love and is meant to be funny. I just couldn’t get past the like. It was being used between 300 - 600 times in an hour! I just hit the transcript button and typed in the word. Otherwise, if that doesn’t annoy you like it did me, you’ll love the show!
  • Boreas22!
    Happy New Year!
    Love you gals and your take on life❤️
  • MLS126%
    Time line of emails
    I enjoy this podcast. My one complaint is emails that are read when the timeline for an answer has expired. I felt compelled to voice my concern after the most recent one The writer is asking for advice for a Christmas deadline and the episode aired is after Christmas. I feel if it can’t be addressed by the request date of the writer it should not be on the episode. So annoying
  • Tattees
    Been there - airplane seat
    The exact scenario you two discussed today with the separated child and parent airplane seats happened to me (except for the part about being in first class) shortly after people started flying again after Covid. I was flying from LA to Pittsburgh on a redeye. It’s a five hour flight and I had an aisle seat. The family that wanted to switch seats with me so they could sit by their child was offering me a middle seat. The flight attendant came over and asked if I was willing to switch seats. I said I was willing to move to a different seat, but just not sit in a middle seat. The flight attendant asked the people in the window and aisle seats if they would move to a middle seat and added, I’ll give you a free premium snack and drink. A 20- something girl said yes and everyone was happy. Three people ended up sitting in seats, other than what was originally assigned to them.
  • Shein Suckz
    Favorite podcast
    Such a great podcast - always insightful, engaging and fun to listen to. Jordana is hilarious and so relatable and Dr. Naomi is so cool and her voice is weirdly soothing LOL…not to mention they are both so smart and self aware. Together they are the perfect yin and yang duo!! I listen every week.
  • SisterBasil0422
    Would love timestamps for each email
    I generally enjoy this podcast, but sometimes the answers to questions can be really drawn out, which is especially frustrating when it’s a question I don’t really care about (e.g., the incessant questions about pregnancy and babies). It would be so awesome to have timestamps so I could easily fast forward through to the content I’m actually interested in! Same goes for the intentions, which frankly I find to be excruciatingly boring.
  • Taylorrene30
    Great show. Favorite podcast
    Love the pod, love the hosts, don’t deserve bad ratings just because people disagree with your opinions!
  • HOPEEW
    Great Vibes
    I just really love these sisters. Their dynamic is great. Always enjoy listening, no matter the topic of the episode. I find Dr. Naomi’s advice to be very valuable and thank her for bringing her expertise to the pod. I’ve listened to Jordana’s other pods and to be honest I think she is best in this one. She and Naomi just click and flow. I loved it so much I decided to subscribe to get extra content + lose those ads. I’ve liked it, but didn’t really vibe with the meditation episodes (though I did use a couple in moments of frustration and liked them). I just didn’t listen to them regularly. So I’m super excited to hear they’re changing it up in 2025 and adding extra bonus episodes for subscribers. I can’t wait! Love y’all - I feel like we’re all friends lol. Thanks for all you do!
  • melcream
    Great listen!
    The perfect duo! Dr Naomi is so sweet and calming and Jordana is so witty and hilarious. These sisters are so wise and fun to listen to! I’ve learned so much from this podcast and look forward to more episodes!
  • csaidwhat
    Light fun and therapeutic all at once
    I look forward to Tuesdays just to listen to Oversharing and I swear it has gotten me thru dark times. I have been listening to jordana on uup for years and she is even more amazing with her sister dr Naomi here. I love when they get real about their family dynamic and Dr Naomi is always so calm and has the best advice. I listen to this on walks and even when I can’t sleep, now going deep into the archives bc I can’t believe I missed out on years of this show. Thank you for this podcast!!!
  • Vc262
    Love the show but it’s getting repetitive
    I have been a long time listener, anxiously awaited the very first episode after being a long time U Up listener. Huge fan of Jordana and love Dr. Naomi! I love how they tackle lots of different interpersonal conflicts and truly look forward to listening every week. But recently I feel like it has gotten really long winded and repetitive. For example, this weeks episode they talked for 30 min before the first listener question. And I don’t feel like I’m getting much value from these parts. I also feel like the responses to the listener questions have gotten a lot longer too and just feels like they are repeating the same thing after the initial answer. I still love the show and plan to keep listening but I just skipped 10-15 min at the beginning of the show and I don’t feel like I missed anything.
  • jennnnnnnnnnnniiiiiiiB
    Meal after baby being born
    Love the pod and love y’all! But I do have to say that I disagree with your take on bringing someone a mela after having a baby. In my social group (we live in the Midwest) it’s very standard to bring someone a meal in the weeks/months after having a new baby. The meal trains that have been set up for me have been so helpful after having my babies. I will say the only odd thing is that the person in the scenarios set it up for herself. Typically a friend sets up a meal train for someone else. Otherwise this is very standard IMO. In my social group/in the Midwest it would actually be kinda rude not to bring someone a meal after having a new baby. It does not have to be an elaborate meal, something simple is fine!
  • Sids1Mom
    Naomi sounds like a bullfrog
    The vocal fry is REALLY unpleasant to listen to. Can someone ask her to speak normally please???
  • octavia rosko
    a few misses in a row
    hey jordana and dr. naomi- i’ve been a listener since the beginning and have enjoyed the pod. I wanted to write in about the election episode, the “12,000 isn’t a lot of money” episode and even the turkey/entree dilemma but the thing that finally got me is the suki waterhouse tickets. I think the hosts really undervalued the “invisible work” of being the planner of the friend group. The leader of the group found an activity for everyone, spotted tickets and bought them while the costs were low, and wrangled the group chat. Then, when she didn’t want to go the rest of the group of friends had the option to go still but they chose not to! And, since they weren’t that interested, they got the option of hanging out doing something they prefer together instead of the concert— at no cost to themselves. The leader friend sold the tickets for them (no one else was asked to try or lift a finger) and i disagree that it is “so easy” to do all these things. I would feel different if it was just 2 friends and the leader friend dropping out meant the remaining friend felt awkward going to a concert alone, but this leader friend found and organized a group outing for everyone and did the labor to organize the group, buy tickets, venmo and then resell! That is actual work! It’s not her job to pay people who did nothing and got to have their preferred night instead. I wonder if there’s a third host who would have a different background/worldview and could open up new avenues of consideration with this podcast (a la jordanas therapist), maybe it’s time for a fresh perspective? -signed a host who always provides the turkey entree
  • Hutch28728
    First & Last
    Somehow this pod came on my radio, while driving. The tinny sound was horrific. The subject was @houseinhabit. It was petty, jealousy & pretty telling about the 3 participants. Now I have to research @houseinhabit. And never listen to this garbage again.
  • Sydneyn16
    I’m triggered
    I love Jordana on U Up podcast and started listening to this pod a few months ago. While I generally am semi-entertained, I just can’t anymore with their hot takes on the triggered stories. I almost always disagree with their responses and end up being triggered for the person that wrote in because of how dismissive Jordana and Dr. Naomi (espeically) are. I just can’t believe this woman is a therapist! While I applaud them for apologizing for being so dismissive about the election results, they clearly didn’t hear the feedback because they went on to excuse a passive aggressive MIL, and then have a pity party for rude MILs everywhere! The rude guy at the gym was RUDE - end of story. Why is that hard to say? For the record, I’ve done years of therapy and couples therapy and consider myself emotionally intelligent and compassionate. But why even read these triggered stories (where people are looking for validation) only to find every possible way to dismiss their experiences?! Officially done with this pod and these out of touch ladies. Hope they can look inward and figure out why they feel the need to invalidate their listeners every week.
  • c h a n d r a
    Used to be better
    Naomi and Jordana’s podcast used to be pretty entertaining and helpful. Now it’s repetitive and somewhat frustrating. Naomi’s advice is always “relax into the discomfort” and she always says it in the same tone. Naomi and Jordana are also both pretty privileged and out of touch. Also, Naomi is very long winded and uninteresting. I think she repeated the same sentence 3 times in one response to one email last episode. I also find that the hosts are unaware of many things. I will stop listening to this podcast soon.
  • KatKatKatKat12
    Ozempic/Swift episode
    I think two women who have way more money than your average person have no place judging someone else who likely genuinely needing that $6k. It’s really easy to take the “moral high ground” when you want for nothing financially.
  • Rb1188
    Election Episode
    I felt that Jordana and Dr. Naomi handled the election episode very well. They have always represented the topic of politics in a thoughtful, fair and balanced way, which I (and I’m sure many others) appreciate. The automatic default when discussing the election results does not need to be panic and outrage and instead can seek to build bridges and understand multiple points of view. I do feel like they ‘gave in’ to the pressure to apologize given the backlash from a few people. However, I hope that if this topic comes up in the future, they continue with their thoughtful and rational approach.
  • Sippycup16
    Election ep
    I was actually really comforted by Naomi’s response to the potential election results. At the end of the day we really can only control ourselves, what is the reason to freak out? Who is this helping? If anything I needed somebody to remind me to step away from social media and those shouting that the sky is falling. I’d also implore those who are so panicked and triggered to have a conversation with someone who didn’t vote for who you did (over half the country), open your eyes/ears and examine why that is. It cannot be true that over half the country doesn’t want women to be “okay.” This new norm of people silencing anybody who disagrees, let alone comforting you that you’re going to be okay, is getting sooo old.
  • Emily Durkin
    Love this podcast!
    Jordana and Dr. Naomi are so insightful. I really enjoy their conversations and look forward to this show every week. Also, the negative reviews about the election episode…..tell me you watch mainstream media without telling me you watch mainstream media.
  • imnatthomas
    Favorite podcast!
    This should and could be a daily talk show. The advice is so relatable and spot on. What the world needs Also, I appreciated you saying we would all be okay after the election. The world needs more peace.
  • MelissaMai81
    Naomi can you clarify?
    I love listening to this show, love the topics, love the life updates they both share! Two issues that stick with me - I honestly don’t get the “I want my kids to be mediocre” thing. I get not tying self worth to accomplishments, but also people who strive for excellence do great things in the world? If we all just accepted being unaccomplished who would ever invent things? Build things? Discover cures for diseases? Get a graduate degree? Start a company? Naomi seems pretty accomplished herself for someone who sees no value in striving to be better. Second - disagree with Naomi that we should try to “tolerate” everything. When someone is being annoying or rude, why can you just tell them to stop? Just allowing everyone to do whatever they want and you just tolerate everything seems like a way to relinquish your personal agency when you in fact could just stand up for yourself and make your desires known. How about teaching people to assert themselves in a nice way so they can have the type of relationships they want rather than letting people walk all over them?
  • jackie3087
    Accountability
    I really love how Naomi and Jordana really confronted some of the feedback/negative reviews in the most recent episode. I can imagine how difficult it is to read reviews about yourself and I love how you guys handled this. I always end listening to an episode feeling like I know ways I can improve the way I carry myself, and that’s inspo from both of you!
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