How long do we wait for our partner? I’ve waited ten years.

Great podcast with practical tips on how to make your marriage better. Love it!

This podcast definitley hits different. If the marriage is in trouble, this podcast will have you feeling hopeful that it can and ultimatley will be saved. Great content, love this one.

Absolutely love this podcast. It really helped me to work on myself and create my “plan” when my husband gave me the “not in love with you” speech. However, come to find out he was having an affair the whole time, won’t end it, and doesn’t believe the marriage can work due to his shame and guilt either way. Could we have more content on this?

All of this gives me hope that even when I feel alone in this marriage crisis that I can gain some important tools and knowledge. What went wrong - what can I do to help save the marriage. Connection ! Being aware of the pause button. Understanding how I have shown up in my marriage to drive a bigger wedge. So many good topics to listen to.

Thoughtful, productive and direct relationship advice delivered with kindness and respect.

Dr. Baucom’s way of explaining all the situations that come up in marriages and how to deal with them constructively has changed the way I look at challenges in my marriage. Thank you!

Dr. Baucom is the exception to, “you get what you pay for”. This podcast is a gem of knowledge that has deeply impacted my life in so many ways. We are so lucky it’s free! It’s real life relationship information with applicable solutions, not just talk about what the problems are. This podcast is worth so much, and I commend Dr. Baucom for offering it for free. I have deep appreciation and gratitude for this! Thank you.

Absolutely wonderful. I have listened to >100 episodes so far. My spouse isn’t listening yet, but still praying. Very practical and helpful.

I have just listened to my first podcast.. it was on connection. It was a good session! Thank you!

In 2017, I found out my wife was having an affair. I was devastated and searched numerous sources for information trying to discover why and how this happened. Dr. Baucom delves into infidelity but focuses primarily on the relationship. Focusing on the marriage was the change that I needed to help me get past the affair. The marriage was the one thing that we could change. I continue to listen routinely to Lee and continue to learn. Our marriage is in a good place right now. “Your marriage can be healed and saved with the right information”.

I found this podcast when my husband and I became separated, soon I started to realize my role in the relationship and the blame. Going into this podcast I was looking for ways to fix my marriage but learned how to better myself as well, I’m so much happier now that I understand what is involved in as deep committed relationship.

What he says really resonates as true to me. I'm not sure if it will work, because my husband said he is done. He is having an affair, (the love of his life) and that makes everything more complicated. I know that my anger and resentment probably brought him to that. I'm working on ways to connect again with him. I have nothing to lose. I think I can even keep my dignity with these tools. We are also at many crossroads in life, we are both almost 50, the kids will leave the nest in a few years, his job is supper demanding and in flux, and we can't seem to make enough money. Lots of stressors for a 20 year marriage. God help us. I have hope that our marriage will be stronger if we can get through this. I still love the guy despite everything. Also I really need some hope I can't bear life without hope.

This is the podcast you should listen to. I’m only in 2017, started at the beginning in 2016. Even though the title says it’s about marriage, it’s not entirely focused on “saving your marriage,” as it is on saving yourself. This is a great podcast that centers on self-reflection and evaluation. Are you ready to be honest with yourself? Because this will take you on a journey in which you’ll identify patterns in your relationships—with significant others, siblings, co-workers, parents, friends...it helps trace the root to the underline motivation to your actions. Growth and change are hard, but this podcast reminds us, that we’re worth the time and work...and if self growth leads to saving a relationship, then all the better 😉

I have listened to almost all of podcasts and recommend them to others who are struggling. I appreciate your connection approach. I would love to hear more on avoiding co-dependency in a healthy connected relationship. Thank you for all you do!

I think I have listened to almost every episode back to 2016. If you are willing to put in the work as Dr. B describes - this is a common sense approach to making your marriage and life much much better. Dont wait -do it now. You will be amazed.

The episode on dealing with the limiting beliefs of a spouse/partner had some helpful insights - great reminders. Some of the limiting beliefs brought out were: love is a feeling; if the relationship is broken it can't be fixed (really like the analogy with a broken arm here); to be married means giving up one's self. Dr. Baucom talks about all of these topics in very understandable language and concept and without judgments. These episodes are good stuff to help any marriage improve as well as working on a relationship that's not what one or both partners want it to be.

Wow just WOW!!! Great podcast!! Helps put thoughts in a different and more productive perspective. Love it!!!

I really enjoyed the show on Helping or Hurting. I will definitely refer clients to it. It’s a pattern of behavior we’ve all experienced, and its expressed so clearly In this episode. Thank you!

I am so grateful I found this podcast. At a time when I thought there was no hope for my marriage I listened and was able to find direction and growth. What an amazing and eye opening experience!!! It took time but my marriage is restored and stronger than ever. Thank you Lee!!

This podcast saved me and our marriage. It real. It’s possible. It’s the most useful and actionable advice I could find out there. Thank you Lee Baucom!

This is a great show that hits home on so many levels. Our marriage hit the bottom not once but twice, I thought I made the changes I needed the first time around, but didn’t. I tried to go at it myself. This time I looked for more answers and found Lee Baucom and his philosophy. I didn't grab the system, but the podcast was an amazing resource. Work on yourself and the rest will follow. Thank you Lee!

Dr. Baucom is entertaining and compassionate as he advises the listener in what to do and gives steps to take improve our marriages. I'm implementing many of his suggestions to improve my connection with my husband. I highly recommend this podcast and have sent it to several friends and family members. Thanks so much Dr. Baucom for your advice and your podcast.

This system does work. It helped save my extremely messed up marriage. We are smoothing out our problems now. She went from what's the point in trying, to let's do this. It took almost a year to heal our brokenness, but I can say we will have a better relationship now then we ever have. We had our ten year anniversary last summer and I didn't think we would have an eleventh. August is coming and I know I have some planning to do. 😃 make a plan and stick with it. Connection is the key!

Dr. Lee actually cares and wants to help you by changing yourself. I'm using the information he freely gives away in the podcasts to become a better man and husband. There is no better counselor, advisor, blogger and author I've come across on marriage than Dr. Lee. Thank you for all your help!

An awesome resource for those who want better a relationship in general. I've found this podcast to be so helpful as a form of premarital counseling for myself & my new fiancé.

This podcast is great for any relationship at any moment in the relationship.

Lee is compelling, concise and hugely helpful. This podcast comes from a generous heart.

I love Lee Bacom’s delivery - he speaks in a straightforward matter of fact manner, but his advice is really insightful. His other podcast Thriveology is very good too. Both of this podcasts are a must hear for anyone going through difficult times - in a relationship or at work.

This series does not just pertain to marriage but to life in general and I would love to see it being taught in high schools, colleges and other institutions.

If you want a great guide to wade through the arena of interpersonal relationships, then Dr. Baucom is a must listen.......in each 20 minute episode, he gives you the means to examine and strengthen your relationship.......wish he had been around 41 years ago when I started my marriage.

Awesome podcast. Very easy to listen too with great advice on marriage and life.

Great show. Take responsibility for your actions and listen to this show

Doctor Lee thank you for putting this out. Although i havent saved my marriage yet. I believe that if i can apply your words and transform it to wisdom that i can save what i alone has destroyed. Please pray for me as i walk this journey and change myself for the better. Your tools and insight are emotional gold. Fingers crossed! I want to keep this family together. Its all on me and thank you for your blind contribution to this broken soul.

I am new to this I can, but so far it's rock solid! If you're looking for solutions you'll find some here if you want to work to save/change/improve your marriage!

Lee is the truth. It's tough to listen at times, but he speaks those words of truth that We need for our own emotional health and the health of marriage even if we stay, or if we leave or get left. What matters is getting and staying free. PPM SYNDROME (poor pitiful me) was my first and middle name!! My life was screwed up because of this pattern brought into the marriage, exacerbated by my husband's sexual addiction, and the trauma of both worlds colliding. I'm having to swallow huge doses of good, but awful tasting medicine that I needed for decades. Stick with it! For your own sake. Your marriage may not be salvageable, but YOUR LIFE IS!! Thanks, Lee😊

Great suggestions and thoughts about all what is important in healthy relationships - Thank you

After several months of marriage counseling and years of marital distress, this has been the most helpful information I've found. The advice is very practical with actual steps to take to help heal a broken relationship.

This information is not only helpful for the troubled or stagnant relationship with your spouse, but is also helpful in keeping a good relationship with your spouse strong and is a better way to look at life and the other relationships around you!

What an awesome guy!! He has truly found his calling. His system has not only saved our marriage... It has transformed it into what we always knew it could be! Absolutely awesome!

I have been listening to these podcasts (the ones that I feel are relevant to my situation) and have found them so helpful and awakening. I have been listening by myself but it's helped me through some hard issues in my marriage. The guest speakers are amazing. These are real, down to earth people who speak about situations many of us have been through in our marriage. Highly recommended.

Wether having trouble or not. Dr Lee speaks the truth about feeling, mind games, really helps to have a strong marriage and peaceful live.

Grateful to have given my marriage another opportunity. My husband and I have been able to use his advice and these podcasts have been an eye opener.

I enjoy how he challenges you to grow. He is always thought provoking and I get something out of every session.

Great podcasts, great perspective, they may not save my marriage but they did give me a fighting chance! For me Dr. Baucom layed out a path to become a better person, a better husband, and a better father on the other side of this. Regardless of whether or not I am successful at saving the marriage. He helped me understand what was going on with my marriage and gave me a constructive plan to try and save it. He gave me a much better perspective and positive outlook on our marriage crisis. He helped me find the calmness in the midst of the chaos. In the immortal words of Jack Saparrow, the problem is not the problem, the problem is your attitude about the problem.... Dr. Baucom helped me understand what that means to me, my marriage, and my life..... I will also add that this podcast is only one part of a larger system. The books and the system are absolutely fantastic too!!!

Lee's stuff is excellent. Straight forward and usable. Very sound advice and help that can put hope back into your life.

This podcast has has saved my marriage. I was looking for anything that would help me save my marriage when my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I wish I would have had this Podcast sooner!..but I am sure glad I have it now. I have managed to win my husband back by listening to Lee Baucom's advice. I implemented his step by step advice, and even though I did not implement it perfectly, my husband and I are working it out. We still have a long way to go but I feel like I have a place to get the tools I need to work it out! I believe my marriage can be saved, and that it can be an exceptional marriage. Thank you Lee Baucom.

I have been listening to the episodes on my Ipod during work and I really enjoy them. I have listened to a lot of marriage podcasts and this one is one of the best. Very good advice, explanations, and steps to improve your marriage. Thanks for the podcast Dr. Baucom and please keep them coming!

Fantastic advice on this podcast. Very practical and helpful. Eye-opening discussion about potential pitfalls of marriage therapy.